IEHE Life

(This is not a final entry, I'll be writing more about college and my friends)

Writing back about my college friends & fun is just like living those days again... I'll write here my experiences in Hinglish..

So My College life begin.. Let me tell you one fact, I’ve never had fun in my school days. I lived very reclusive in school, Though I’ve got some of very great friends from school life, but I’ve not had as fun as I’ve had in College…

Besides this I’ll also write about my college friends… Mostly its great fun and wonderful experiences for which I remember my college…

Beginning in college - The transition of school to college was smooth.. I must say that I felt connection from that college.. Its kinda of positive energy when I first went there for taking admission form.. So later I thought, yes I want to study here… In beginning, I was bit scared for ragging but with me plus point was that I’d my one family friend’s son over there.. Who was senior to me, So from him, I knew much about college and many time he saved me for ragging but I must say, in our time, ragging was only limited to introduction and it wasn’t involved physical assault,.. Still I or we (all fresher) were afraid of seniors.. And we are used to sit in library in free time.. It was impossible for us to visit college ground or in corridors or to enter canteen before welcome party.. We had to follow strict code of conduct (unofficially) in uniform, how to greet seniors… I remember, how we used to say good morning etc whenever we come in front of seniors.. This was for every juniors,, I remembers there was one pavement near canteen (where all seniors usually found), we had to go by it to reach our classes.. when we were juniors (before welcome party), so crossing that area was kind of deadly walk, Itni darr lagti thi, ki jaldi se apne class me pahuch jaaye, aur koi senior na pakad le… But many times We had given our intro, and had to tell about ourself.. There was also one way (both in Hindi & English) to ask seniors’ names. Agar seniors ka dhyaan kahi aur bhi hai to bhi unko greet karma hi rahta tha bhale who sune ya na sune.. Kayi baar to seniors class me aa jate the (jab professor nahi hote the) aur puri class ka intro lete the. Generally mein jitney seniors se mila who sab friendly the, wahi friendly way se intro bhi lete the…

Mera personal experience ish bare me yah hai ki, jo bhi respect wali sab baate thi woh sab jaruri hai, woh aapke seniors hai, unko respect dena chahiye aur intro etc se juniors aur seniors ke beech communication establish hota hai.. Aur yahi seniors aapki help bhi karte hai aur college ke bare me kayi saari information dete hai… Generally seniors thik hi hote, bas aap faltu hoshiyaari naa dikhayo.. Well After welcome party (unofficially) enviormnemt relax ho gaya tha, kafi seniors se dosti ho gayi thi.. woh sab supportive bhi the…

Welcome party se related ek incident hai… I was very excited for this party .. Aur us time badi politics ho rahi thi, B.A. aur B.com seniors me conflict tha, B.Com seniors ne sabhi to invite kiya tha aur kuch contri bhi karma tha… B.A ke kuch seniors ne hoshiyaari dikhayi aur kaha ki B.A. juniors BCom ki party me na jaaye, aur who juniors ko free me party denge.. Anyway mein aur mere family friend who was my senior (we were both in B.A.) ne Bcom ki party me jana decide kiya.. aur achchha hua, us party me chale gaye Bcoz, B.A waalo ne party kabhi di nahi aur ush chakkar me kayi juniors Bcom party me nahi ja paye.. Me aur mere dost sab party me gaye tha. Par party me dance karte samay, mein kisi se takra gaya aur mera glasses pata nahi kaha gaayab ho gaye.. ek gante me dance floor me chasma hi find karta rah gaya.. itna bura laga tha, anyway dance to kar liya jaise taise, par baad me baitha bhi raha, kyonki kuch saaf hi nahi dikh raha tha, Anyway My friends advised me to enjoy in that way rather than feel sad.. I did it and waise hi bina glasses enjoy kiya… Uske baad men ek baat pakki kar li ki ab hamesha dance karte samay chashma utaar loonga otherwise phir chashma kahi gir gira jaayega…..

Let me tell about some friends and our fun experiences….

College me muje itne saare achchhe dost mile. We had our own group and and its was exclusive & cool one.. Other students wanted to be part of it.. I think it was biggest group of BA.. Group members were Me, Prithvi , Kunal, Gaurav, Pushpendra, Hariom (only person from BCom), Chetan Raghvendra, Manmohan, Neha, Arpita, Navera, Nidhi, Mahamani, etc... We all used to hangout whenever we got time at canteen usually.. This was formed in second semester,

Let me write about friends I had in College

Pushpendra: First person who was my friend We had same zodiac sign ie CANCER, We had common interests in Luxury, Parties, Fashion.. Hum log kaafi saath me hang out karte.. Woh kafi skinny tha, ush kaaran me uska kaafi majjak udata tha,, par we were very good friends.. Tell you what, we all had one big group, all were friends in that group, but we also had our individual friends with in / out of group.. So it was Pushpendra who was my great friend from my group in initial days of college… Pushpendra ke room me bhi jata tha, Actually mere kaafi friends other cities se the aur who as a P.G. rahte the, In dosto ke rooms me bhi kaafi masti hoti thi, who bhi apne aap me alag kahani hai. Puspendra, Hariom aur Prithvi ke saath rehta tha..

Neha: For me she's a Platinum... Nick name given by me... She was the girl I met first time in library.. She wore lemon yellow dress... We become friends after that... One of the understanding and friendly persons I've met there in IEHE... History Freak or I should say archeology freak for her ... Beside History, Food cuisines & Shopping are the things which she likes alot.. I remembered her bday celebration at Motel shiraz which was fun.. Everyone enjoyed a lot.... We used to give each other small treats on small-small ocassions, like Treat I gave her when my favorite hollywood acrtress of that time Renee Zellweger received Oscar Award for Best Supporing Actress...

Arpita: What special with me and Arpita’s friendship is that we are still very-very good friends since the day first in college.. I knew we talked bit when we had no class and I remember she sad was.. Har baar wo bhi ek bolti thi – “Papa ke Paas Jana Hai”.. Uska sabse favorite kaam tha newspapaer me Betul ke bare me news padhna.. Kitni khush hoti jab betul ke baare me kuch newspapers me padh leti thi… Aur jab uske Papa ka transfer Betul se Bhopal hua… Literally wo itni khush thi, poouchho mat… Mein aur Arpita bas ek dusre ke miss call hi marte the.. Waise bhi yeh bina kaam ka miss call marna ush samay ka fashion hi tha… Sab log ek dusre ko miss call hi marte rehte the.. Miss call to thi hai, agar kishi ne miss call receive kar liya to uski to band hi baj jaati thi, We all were very conscious for our mobile balance.. Ek baar Mene canteen me arpita ke mobile se kishi ko canteen me hi miss call diya aur usne call receive kar diya aur jab arpita ko yeh pataa chala to wo kya naraaz huyi thi us insaan se… . Arpita is kind of more understaning and practical.. She knew very well what’s right for her and what’s wrong!!.. Aur hamari itni strong friendship ka yeh hi kaaran hai ki hum log aapash me kaafi practical rahe hai aur aapash me ek bahut achchhi understanding rahi hai….

Hariom: . Mujhe yaad me Mein aishe ek college central ground me ek tree side baitha tha, Tabhi hariom wahan aaya, though we were acquitances, but were not so good friends.. Hariom’s very great sense of humour and he can make out fun of any simple conversations.. so at that day, we talked and aur ush din usne mujhe itna hasaya tha that I can’t explain in words.. I knew hum kaafi der saath baithe the aur mein pure waqt hasta hi raha… Literally pet dukhne laga tha hase the,, and ush din ke baad meri usse kaafi achchhi dosti ho gayi thi… hum log Jai-Veeru type ki dosti ho gayi thi.. He was my Best friend from IEHE, Hum log har kabhi saath baithe rahte, pagalo jaise haste rahte, Our friends used to tease us ki Tum logo me kuch chakkar to nahi chal raha hai… Hariom was big reason of making me COOL in college.. Actually I’m very witty and cool in home and with my cousins but School me kabhi woh witty ho paya,, and wahi haalat college me bhi thi.. But With the friendship with Hariom, or I call him Hari, I was able to make myself more comfortable in college, I was actually be Me then.. uski dosti ne mere hidden coolness aur witty nature ko baahar nikala and aur mere ush coolness se kaafi dost bane. Kahan mein Reclusive aur nerd tha school me, kishi se jyada baat na karma, chhupchhap pura school time pura karma aur ghar aa jana.. aur wahi college me masti karna, sabse majjak karna, logo ki taang khichna.. Aur Hariom was major reason for it. Other friends used to notice that Vipul, tum to shuru me bade chhup rahte the, majjak karte nahi the aur ab bahut bolne lage ho.. But I never hurt someone by my jokes aur majjak karne ka sabse bada niyam hai ki apne upper majjak karo…
Yeh sab 2-3 semester me shuru hua tha, in semeseter se I started having me more fun in and out of college.. Hariom was good in computer knowledge.. And we all friends used to exploited him in any computer related matter.. Jitne to project-assignments ushne computer me apne liye nahi banaye honge utne ushne hum sab ke liye banaye honge


We all friends used to chiil out in many places inside college like, near room no 24, Canteen, etc.. In winter semesters we usully gathered near trees on ground to get sunlight.. kayi baar classes aisi hoti thi ki sab saath me mil nahi paate the… kayi baar hansi majjak chalta rahta tha to classes miss kar dete the.. Ab college me to masti chalti rahti.. College ke baad ya to Igloo chale jaate (kayi baar college time me hi igloo hang out karne chale jaate..) Igloo unofficial major hang-out place of IEHE folks.. Igloo has also attached some nice memeories..

Well Generally College ke baad or college me agar bore ho rahe ho to , hum boys kabhi kabhi Prithvi – Hariom ke room chale jaate the, wahi baithe rehte, faaltu baate karte, gaane sunante rahte… Woh bhi aapne aap me yaade hai…

Sabse jyada majja to parties me aata, actually kayi baar aishe hi aur kishi b’day me parties organized hoti… Parties venues - kishi ka room ya city’s outskirt’s restaurants hote the.. Yeh parties especially kayi baar to ksih ke ghar me bhi parites hui hai… Yeh Parties especially boys’ parties hoti,,,

Most of time Prithvi ke Room me hi parties huyi hai, At evening hum sab wahan pahuchte the aur phir music start hota aur sab baate karte, masti hoti, ek dusre ki taang khichte … In parties me kuch log drink bhi karte the aur non-veg khate the.. Though I’ve never consumed such things but I’m always comfortable with those persons who consume these things… Anyway,, par friends were supportive and very understanding, Jo drink nahi karte the aur non- veg nahi khate the un logo ko kabhi kishi ne FORCE ne kiya yeh sab khaane ya peene ke liye… Ek aur achchhi baat, mere dost itne pyaare the, ki mere liye woh specially veg khana arrange karte the (Mostly my friends ate non-veg) but for me kuch na kuch veg khana aarange hota tha aur who bhi pura khana nahi ki 1-2 veg items.. Ab kayi baar me in parties me jo jyada hi drink kar jaate the unki kya haakat hoti hai.. Kayi baar aisi comic situation create hota tha,,, Kuch dost ek baar drunk hone baad itne emotional ho jaate the ki unki baate sunane laayak hoti thi, agar koi kisi ladki par fida hua hota to ushi ko yaad karta rahta.
Well meine apne family ko bata rakha tha, ki my some friends take drinks.. (actually family me transperancy honi chahiye aur agar aap drink nahi karte to parents ko yeh sab batane me koi jhijhak nahi ho chahiye).. Though earlier I had some prejudices against those who drink but after meeing this guys, I felt that jaruri nahi drink karne wala insaan hamesha bura hi hoga.. I found my those friends (who drank) very nice..

Anyway In parites me dance to main hota tha, aur jyada tar hum sab dance hi karte the.. It was BIG fun.. Aishe ajeeb- ajeeb dance karte the… Meri haalat to aishi hoti dance karte samay hoti thi jaise mujhe MATA gayi ho, Sir kahi aur ja raha hai pair
Kayi aur…

Ek bada hi majedar incident hua aishi hai party me, Prithvi ke room me ek party ho rahi thi, aur sab dance kar rahe the, kuch log drunk the aur kuch log smoke kar rahe to pure room me smoke bara hua tha, dum lights chaalu thi, Aur MUSIC to Very LOUD tha,, Ab Prthivi ke landlord ko Music jada hi loud laga to woh uppar aa gaye aur unhone door knock kiya.. Gaurav bhaisahab gaye aur jaakar darwaza khola, woh itna drank tha ki ushe pata hi nahi ki Lanlord aaya hai,, Woh landlord jab room me aaya to unke to lagbhag Hosh hi udd gaye, Pure room Smoke se bhara hua tha aur Sab pagalo jaise nach rahe the, Jaise sabne unko dekha, sab (even me was also there) chhupchhap khade hogaye, Prithvi – Hariom was frightened to see him.. Landlord ne un do ko kaafi danta ki yeh sab kya tamasha chal raha hai aur phir uske jaane ke baad, sara josh gaayab ho gaya, in dono ko laga ki kayi woh inke ghar me shikayat na karde,,, Anyway aisha to nahi hua.. Par yeh complete incident kaafi wierd tha.. Par jitni room me parties hui woh aishi hi majeedar hoti thi….

Kayi baar humne parties Shahar ke bahar ke restaurants me bhi di… woh bhi kam masti wali nahi hoti thi… Unki bhi yaade thi.. I remeber sab dost ek dusre to pick up karte aur phir sab ek saath kishi particular restaurants me jaate, So jaate samay generally bikes me hote ya Kunal ki four wheelers me hote… Raste bhar Cheekhte- Chillate huye jaate.. Gaane gaate ya, kishi ki bhi jai-jaikaar lagate… Outside restaurant me jaakar, agar wahan dance floor hota to wahan par dance karte, khaate – peete, phir aa jaate,.. Generally Bday parties baahar hi dete the aur jiska bday hota woh puri party sponsored karta.. Aise hi ek baar Puspendra ki Bday parties hum log celebrate karne City ke bahar “Babarchi” restuarent gaye the, Kaafi mjedaar party thi, kuch masti ki, wahan bachchho ke jhoole lage huye the un jhoolo me bachchho jaise jhool rahe the..

Music ki jahan baat aayi , ush jamane me mera favorite song “It’s The Time to Disco” tha aur hamari parties me yeh song to MUST tha… Yeh Gana thoughout 3 years hamari parties me hota tha.. aur kabhi koi parties agar yeh gana bajta, to mere dost jante the ki ab Vipul ko dance me josh aayega bcoz I was crazy for this song..

In sab Parties se attached ek baat hai.. Actually meri Mom se permission lena bahut badi baat thi.. Papa’s been cool for such parties but I’d to take permission every time from my mom.. So jab bhi college me pata chalta hi aaj kahi party hai, Mom se permission lo to sabse pehle who manaa kar deti thi, per mein unhe manaa hi leta tha, But 11pm tak ghar aane ka order bhi milta tha… Ab yeh hota tha ki mein parties me jata tha aur jaise hi 10:45pm hote the to dil ki dhadkan tez ho jati thi, ki ab ghar jana hai… aur mom ka phone aa jata tha ki kahan ho, abhi taka aaye kyo nahi… Ab aishe samay me Hariom ki shamat aati thi, kyoki tab mera koi personal vehicle hota nahi tha aur sab car pool karke party venue me assemble hote the.. to Mein Hariom ko hi bolta hi ab mujhe ghar chhod.. Ek baat aur lagbhag sabhi dost drunk hote the aur mom ne bola tha ki Hariom hi sirf drive karke tumhe ghar drop kare kyonki Woh drink nahi karta tha aur puri parites me woh aur mein hi Hosh me rehte the…. To kayi hariom mujhe chhodne ke chakkar me party hi enjoy nahi kar pata tha….

Par over all yeh sab parties ka apna hi majaa tha,

College me ek baar ek play me hum sab dosto ne ek play me part liya tha… Actually hamare senior devendra sir ne hum sab ko join kar liya tha. Play unka tha aur naam tha “Ramdayal ki Maut”, Hum sab ka as such koi bada roles nahi tha par par chhote se role me hi humne pure college me tahalka machaa diya tha…

Actually Play me yeh tha ki ek Ramdayal naam ke aadmi ka kuch log murder kar dete hai aur baad me ush maut par jo main character (jo hamare wahi senior sir the) play ke jariye society par kayi questions raise karte the…

Ab huya yeh ki, Humne yeh decide kiya ki mein ( I was playing that murdered person Ramdayal) aur Hariom jaakar wahan baith gaye jahan sab log baith kar program dekh rahe the… Yeh decided the ki hum thodi ladai karenge aur phir baki dost aur jaayenge aur mujhe peetenge aur mere ko utha kar stage me le jayege,,, and this was the beginning of play..

Ab mein aur hariom jaakar sab logo ke saath baith gaye.. jaise hi play stage me shuru huya, Mein aur Hariom ekaek Apni jagah khade hokar manhandling karne lage aur jor jor se argument karne lage.. Saare Professors aur students (jinke liye yeh unexpected tha) hamari aur dekhne lage.. tabhi hamare baaki dost baahar se bhaag kar aaye aur unke haath me hockey aur baseball sticks the aur aur sab aishe behave karne lage ki woh sab mujhe maar rahe hai aur phir me cheekhne laga ki bacho- bachao aur mene aisa pretend kiya me gahyal hoon aur stage ki aur bhaga aur cheekhne laga help me aur mere dost aakar mujhe stage me maarne ka pretend karne lage aur phir mujhe mar kar backstage le jaye.. KYA REACTIONS THA LOGO THA.. SAB SHOCKED HO GAYE THE..… Hum sab dost ne ush 2 mintues ke scene ko kya play kiya tha.. Professors aur students to surprised ho gaye aur kuch professors to ladayi rokne aane hi waale the par baad me unhe samajh aaya ki this was actually part of play.. …

Generally annual fuctions me hum sab peechhe biathkar aishe comments pass karte the…. Aishe functions me lagbhag sab par comments pass karte the jo stage me aata tha…aishe time haste haste paagal hi ho jate the….



(to be continued……..)