Sunday, January 18, 2009

Abhliasha - Bestest person in my life

Wowww.. Whatta coincidence, when I began to write about Abhilasha for my blog, then at the same time, music player in my laptop started playing Britney’s song “Radar”.. This song brings out the memory of my last visit to Bhopal when Me and Abhilasha were singing (it was more like a shouting) this song while she was driving her vehicle and other people were looking at us and amused on our lunacy… We were like JAI – VEERU buddies from the Sholay movie…..

Abhilasha…. Her current nick name from me is PLUTON
Pluton…. She is the BESTEST & God-gift to me. Our friendship started in 1999 when I came to Bhopal’s KV in 9th class. and my first encounter with her was when she gave me toffee for her birthday and I felt that it’s some kind of ragging, Weird me!!... But the way she approached me later and asked all about me was so kind and sweet.. At that time I felt very relaxed…. Though Sometimes she embarrassed me for e.g. that talcum powder incident… !!
Slowly at the time of 10th board, we became good friend.. and gradually in higher classes of 11th & 12th , we were best friends….. What interesting in our friendship is that Telephone played the major role in our friendship.. Though we were friends but we hardly hanged out together in school.. we talked whenever we got time, on telephone... Here I want to include one incident of when she was about to call me for the first time on telephone, actually She wanted to know about some herbs from my Papa... God I was very EXCITED that she was calling me....

By the way she was my first and last CRUSH, But mind you, A more HEALTHY and DECENT one… I was attracted to her simply because of her Nice nature and wonderful personality especially her sweetest voice.. That’s it!

During 10th and 11th classes, I was going through worst period of my life… and I know from my school, Pluton was the only person who stood by me and gave her tremendous support. Not only me but my family also appreciated this...

In 11th & 12th classes we were not in the same subject classes but we were sharing great friendship, I know we always talked on telephone about our daily happenings in school.. I always told her about my achievements of highest marks in geography in class, But only about geography because other subjects marks weren’t so impressive, !!!! She was through out the topper in the school and I was so HAPPY and felt proud when we had same % in 12th final exams… Any way that’s also a different story!!!!

After school, we had maintained our friendship and were in touch… She went to out of station and I went to IEHE….. We started to realize that we shared great telepathy. Though she used to call me but there were 3-4 examples of her calling me on my cell on exactly the same time when I remembered her… So it was kinda telepathy between us… Many times we experienced this telepathy that when she remembered me, I called her at the same time and vice versa… Even we can understand each other without uttering a single word…. I feel I had strong connections with her since previous births,, and We share kind of soul to soul relationship……

But we became more informal when she returned back to Bhopal and we started chilling out together and Rice Bowl is the place where we met… There is also one interesting thing that we were friends since 1999 but for the first time we properly and informally hang out in 2005!! And from then we started chilling out often at different places…Before it, telephone conversations made our friendship stronger… It also proved one point that wavelength of thoughts must match between two persons for better relation not, how much they meet…

One of the very unexpected events for us was when She came to Ujjain for her placements in 2008, I think we were destined to meet because everything was so favorable and we really had wonderful time together....

Recently we met in last year December, when I spent evening with her… We behaved like crazy persons like we were singing Radar song and she was driving, I was jumping on road in happiness when She gifted me Britney’s latest album CIRCUS cd, etc..

We spent many peacefull time at OFFICER'S MESS - her favorite hang out place, [by watching Lower Lake view, taking walk along the lake side, sipping cold coffee on the the stairway looking over the buiding on the other side of lake.]
There are so many momemts which we enjoyed together, I can't mention all of them...
Yesterday Last night, we talked, and she said two things so funny that I was LOL when I remembered what she said.....


She is my BESTEST FRIEND & “Chhota Bhai” … She’s provided me major support and always stand by my side.. A strong believer of me, my goal and my crazy dreams. A big confidante of mine, I can confide any secret to her… She influnced me a lot with her optimism, even The SECRET book is gifted me by her, which has changed my thoughts up to large extent… She’s my biggest critique, advisor and knows me more than I know about myself. I can truly be me in her company. She’s the only one whom I torture by telling whatever I feel for Britney Spears..The warmth & freshness of our friendship is still the same as it was in 1999... Thank God, We never face kinda silly problems of "expectation", "possessiveness' jealousy etc..
I praised a lot, Pluton, but I still haven't forgetten “BLACKOUT” matter, because of that we haven't talked for 2 weeks. Anyway, you compensated by giving CIRCUS CD..

Some Crazy information about her….::

Why I call her PLUTON, because She is actually from Pluto, Yeah the planet which has recently been excluded from Solar system.. And yes She’s Alien…. As she is from Pluto, She’s my Pluton.. She is इच्छाधारी alien, so She changes herself into human and lives on the earth...

Her Real Alien Pic -

Her official alien name – Pluton

Other officials names – 1)Alien सुंदरी, 2)इच्छाधारी Alien, 3)पाताल अप्सरा


Her Favorite Song:
"मैं तो प्लूटो को जा रही थी, मैं तो light speed में उड़ रही थी, मैं alien हुई तो, मैं क्या करू...."

(Mind you, this song is on top number in Pluto Music Chart)

Her Motto – I love Pluto!



Her Mode of transport to travel to/froPluto:





Her Planet's compatriot:





[ABHILASHA, You MEAN A Lot to me.. I Simply want to THANK YOU for everything. I'm blessed to have your gracious presence in my life.... Ich liebe und respektiere Sie vom Kern meines Herzens.]

And Last but not the least I want to end this blog with some lines from britney's song "I Will Be There":
"Come and Hold my hand
Let me show how friend should be,
I will make it alright
Let me make it clear,
You can put your trust in me
Yes I'll be there.
When You need someone
You just turn around
And I, will be there.

When you're feeling alone
Baby, Let me know
And I, will be there."

1 comment:

Abhilasha said...

i'm truly short of words. thx a trillion dear. thank you ittaaa... shara...